Home and Family: Knowing your Child Intimately

Chuck Swindoll identifies the core problems with modern families and encourages parents to train their children in the ways of the Lord.

Introduction

• Importance of the family in the Minister's life
• Focus on rearing children and the home throughout the semester

Relevance to the Audience

• Addressing potential irrelevance for singles
• Citing Scripture (1 Timothy 3:4-5) to emphasize the importance of managing one's household as a requirement for ministry

Biblical Foundation

• Explanation of the requirement from 1 Timothy 3:4-5
• The parallel between managing a household and managing the Church of God

The Church as a Family

• The pastor’s role as a father figure
• The church as a family rather than a business
• Personal anecdote about leaving a congregation and the impact on the members

Trends in Family Life

• Trend 1: Breakdown of families
  • Statistics on the increase of single-parent families from 1970 to 1994
  • Personal experiences with broken families during marriage ceremonies
• Trend 2: Pace and race of parents
  • The increasing busyness of family life
  • Study revealing the minimal time fathers spend with their children
• Trend 3: Abuse and neglect of children
  • Rise in awareness and reporting of child abuse
  • Personal observations of child abuse and its impact

Proverbs 22:6 – The Importance of Child Training

• Misinterpretation of the verse as a promise for children to return to God in old age
• Explanation of the Hebrew origins and meanings
• Importance of training children according to their individual characteristics (bents)

Understanding the Individuality of Children

• Biblical examples of different characteristics within the same family
• The necessity of recognizing and nurturing each child's unique traits

Common Parenting Errors

• Treating all children the same
• Comparing children within the family
• Personal decisions to break with past parenting methods

Reflection on Pastoral Parenting

• The potential link between pastoral responsibilities and rebellious children
• Importance of breaking negative cycles from past parenting

Conclusion and Prayer

• Encouragement to make a break with past negative parenting influences
• Prayer for guidance and understanding through biblical principles

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